Single doesn’t mean solo.

Singleness isn't a problem to be solved. It's just another route to togetherness.


Regardless of relationship status, we all have the same desire for nearness, understanding, and love. We all need friendships and dinner parties, celebrations and commiseration, lament and commitment.
We all need community—and we all need Jesus.

Get Over Here: A Single’s Guide to Meaningful Community offers a refreshing take on being single in the church. She shows you how to intentionally build authentic, life-giving relationships that put our mutual faith in Christ at the center rather than the cultural categorizations of dating, marriage, parenthood, and other typical distinctions.

Your community is waiting. Let's come to one another with open arms and proclaim, "Get over here!" with joy and hope.

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“You were made to be here, exactly this single, and it is good that you are at the party.”

— Get Over Here Excerpt

“Melissa offers practical advice for those who are unmarried in the church, but also counsel for the ones who love the unmarried ones in their church.”

Lore Wilbert, Author

“With the wisdom of a trustworthy guide and the care and humor of your best friend, Melissa offers inspiration, deep theological truth, and practical steps we all need to grow in community!

The church and the broader culture need this message,”

Nicole Zasowski, Licensed Therapist, Author

“This wise and measured guidebook will help every reader who is single feel seen, known, and understood right where they are.”

Lisa Whittle, Author & Speaker